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"The Heart of a Giver"

Writer: Kevin PendletonKevin Pendleton


Key Scripture: Matthew 6:1-4

Giving is an act of worship, a reflection of the heart, and a demonstration of trust in God. Yet, in a world that often celebrates generosity with public recognition and social validation, Jesus calls us to a different standard—one where the condition of our hearts matters more than the visibility of our actions.

The Wrong Way to Give

Jesus warns in Matthew 6:1-4 against giving with the wrong motives. He speaks of those who “sound a trumpet” when they give, ensuring that others see and praise their generosity. While giving is a beautiful act of love, doing so for attention diminishes its spiritual impact.

Common Ways People Give with Wrong Motives:

  • Giving for recognition rather than obedience to God.

  • Using generosity as a way to gain influence over others.

  • Giving out of guilt, hoping to earn favor with God.

  • Expecting personal gain, treating God like a business transaction.

When we give with a self-centered heart, we have already received our reward—the fleeting praise of people. But God calls us to a deeper, more fulfilling kind of giving.

Giving Beyond Money

Giving is not just about finances; it extends to every area of our lives. True generosity includes:

  • Time: Investing time in others through mentorship, listening, and acts of service.

  • Talents: Using God-given gifts to serve and uplift others, whether in music, teaching, craftsmanship, or hospitality.

  • Encouragement: Offering words of affirmation, support, and prayer to those in need.

  • Acts of Kindness: Simple gestures like helping a neighbor, volunteering, or being present for a distressed friend.

  • Forgiveness: Extending grace to others, even when it is difficult.

  • Compassion: Being emotionally and spiritually available to those who are struggling.

The Right Way to Give

Jesus instructs us to give discreetly, even when our left-hand does not know what our right hand is doing. This metaphor encourages us to develop a spirit of giving so naturally that it becomes second nature, without any desire for recognition.

Principles of Godly Giving:

  • Give in secret: Trust that God sees your heart and will reward you openly.

  • Give out of love: True generosity is not about obligation or recognition but love for God and others.

  • Give without expectation: Do not give to receive; instead, give as an act of faith and obedience.

  • Give cheerfully: 2 Corinthians 9:7 reminds us, “God loves a cheerful giver.”

Aligning Our Hearts with God’s

Our motivation for giving should be to glorify God and serve others, not to receive praise. As Colossians 3:23 says, “Whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men.”

When we shift our focus from seeking human approval to God’s pleasure, our giving transforms from self-interest to a powerful expression of love and worship.

A Challenge to Reflect

As you begin to understand a giver's heart, find a way to give that only God sees. Whether it’s a financial gift, an act of service, or a moment of kindness, do it without seeking recognition. Reflect on how it changes your heart and deepens your faith.

Final Thoughts

Giving is not about the amount but about the heart behind it. God is more interested in why we give than in what we give. When we give with humility, love, and trust, we honor God and experience His blessings in ways that go beyond material rewards.

Let us strive to be givers whose hearts are aligned with God’s—seeking His approval rather than man's praise. By doing so, we lay up treasures in heaven, where our true reward awaits.

 
 
 

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